Chicago Defender - CHAT DADDY http://www.chicagodefender.com/articles.sec-233-1-chat-daddy.html <![CDATA[Dear Chat Daddy, My med-school daughter is dating a certified loser]]> Dear Chat Daddy, My husband and I do not approve of our 27-year-old daughter’s relationship with a guy she met while away attending medical school. He’s 30 years old, has three children, unemployed, is not in school and lives with his mother. ]]> <![CDATA[Dear Chat Daddy, Lots of hot women on campus giving me the cold shoulder]]> Dear Chat Daddy, I’m an 18-year-old male, and I just started my freshman year in college. I was raised in a single-parent household by my strict mother, and all of my knowledge about sex has come from the streets and other male friends. I was recently having a conversation with my new roommate about my lack of experience when it comes to sex. ]]> <![CDATA[Dear Chat Daddy, I seem to only land one empty relationship after another]]> Dear Chat Daddy, I’m ready for a committed relationship with a good man. I’m a 30-year-old single woman in good shape, employed, outgoing and have been told by many men that I’m very attractive. Whenever I go out, guys line up just to buy me dinner, drinks and to give me their numbers.]]> <![CDATA[Dear Chat Daddy, My couch potato grandson is getting a bit plump and juicy]]> Dear Chat Daddy, I'm really concerned about my 10-year-old grandson who I'm raising alone. He has gained so much weight over the summer that he is not able to wear any of his school clothes from last year and he is in the house playing video games and eating all the time. ]]> <![CDATA[Dear Chat Daddy, I'm divorced, don't wanna marry again--my new girlfriend wants to]]> Dear Chat Daddy, I'm a 44-year-old single male, employed and the father of two teenage sons from a previous marriage. For the last three years I've been living with my girlfriend who is 36 years old, employed and has no children. ]]> <![CDATA[Dear Chat Daddy, My holy self is caught up in a hot mess]]> Dear Chat Daddy, I'm a 36-year-old professed Christian woman with a husband and three children. For the past year, I've been having an affair with my husband's fraternity brother who I met last year at a social event. ]]> <![CDATA[Dear Chat Daddy, It's been 11 years and my man hasn't left his wife yet]]> Dear Chat Daddy, I'm a 39-year-old female who's been living with the same guy for 11 years now. He is everything I could want in a potential husband but there's one small problem, he's still married. ]]> <![CDATA[Dear Chat Daddy, My smart, athletic brother is turning into a weed head]]> Dear Chat Daddy, I am a 16-year-old female who is writing you in hopes of getting some advice for my 13-year-old athletic brother who does well in school. ]]> <![CDATA[Dear Chat Daddy, I want her, but she says I'm just a friend]]> Dear Chat Daddy, I’m a 40-year-old Black man who has always been about his business. I’ve had a successful career in law enforcement for 12 years now and I pretty much enjoy a very fulfilling life. Six months ago, I met a woman to whom I have become very emotionally attached and can really see myself marrying. ]]> <![CDATA[Dear Chat Daddy, So what, I'm a cougar]]> Dear Chat Daddy, I'm a 45-year-old successful and well-educated woman who for one reason or another couldn't seem to find a decent man. I've been on the dating scene for the past five years and have come across men in my age range, but none of them tickled my fancy due to ego clashes and different life directions. ]]> <![CDATA[Dear Chat Daddy, I am a lesbian, but I met a man that I like]]> Dear Chat Daddy, I’m a 26-year-old female who really needs some of your advice. I recently met a very nice guy about a month ago while out with friends. He is 24 years old, employed and has no children and seems to be in love with me. Here's my problem... ]]> <![CDATA[Dear Chat Daddy, I have a good husband, but I'm digging another guy too]]> Dear Chat Daddy, I’m writing to you about a very sensitive issue. I’ve been married to my husband for 12 years now and lately for some reason I am just not attracted to him anymore. He’s a very good provider, respectful and treats me like a queen. ]]> <![CDATA[Dear Chat Daddy, My guy dumped me...now I have no date for prom!]]> Dear Chat Daddy, I'm a 17-year-old who is graduating. I'm very excited about attending my prom but the guy who I was dating told me a week ago that he doesn't want to be my date any more. ]]> <![CDATA[Dear Chat Daddy, My girl wears her birthday suit...in front of her son!]]> Dear Chat Daddy, I really need your help. I am a 37-year-old male who has been dating a 34-year-old woman for the past four months. I am really into her, but there is just one problem: she likes to walk around nude in front of her teenage son, and sometimes his friends. ]]> <![CDATA[Dear Chat Daddy, How do I help my obese teen?]]> Dear Chat Daddy, I’m a 32-year-old married woman writing you because I’m outraged over a rude comment my mother-in-law made to my 16-year-old daughter at a recent family dinner. She told my daughter that she was getting too fat and will never get a man if she didn’t stop packing on the weight. I, too, am concerned about the weight she has gained over the past few years. ]]> <![CDATA[Dear Chat Daddy: Searching for my father, but Mama won't help me]]> Dear Chat Daddy, I am a 43-year-old single mother of two who has never met her father. Just recently, I have decided to look for my father to find out why he walked out on my brother and me when we were very young. I need to know why he left us and if we have any other brothers and sisters out there in the world. My mother is totally against it and won’t participate in assisting me whatsoever, which really bothers me. ]]> <![CDATA[Dear Chat Daddy, My good friend has B.O. How do I tell her?]]> Dear Chat Daddy, I am trying to figure out how to tell my best friend of over five years that she has a body odor problem. Every time we see each other to go shopping or just to hang out, I smell this foul odor.]]> <![CDATA[Dear Chat Daddy, My honor roll daughter aspires to act, not go on to college]]> Dear Chat Daddy, I am a 35-year-old single woman with two jobs. For the past six months I have been acquainted with a guy I met at a mutual friend’s housewarming party. ]]> <![CDATA[Dear Chat Daddy, My husband married me because of a $50 bet]]> Dear Chat Daddy, I’m a 26-year-old married woman with a 9-month-old son. My husband and I have been together for less than two years now and I am at my wits end. We are headed for divorce court because I recently found out that he never really loved me and it is truly tearing me up inside. ]]> <![CDATA[Dear Chat Daddy, My $20,000 a month habit: shopping!]]> Dear Chat Daddy, I am a 28-year-old single male with a great paying job, but I believe I may have a compulsive shopping disorder.]]>